tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post8093593904260705275..comments2011-04-21T15:49:53.392-06:00Comments on World of Healthcraft: Not actually dead!Jessica Mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06482829338366545360noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post-59602755591375824902011-03-19T21:05:35.234-06:002011-03-19T21:05:35.234-06:00Thanks guys. Everything you say makes sense, and ...Thanks guys. Everything you say makes sense, and it's what the rational part of my brain says, it's just hard to explain that to the other part. =P It helps when I hear it from other people though. I did talk to my boss on Friday, and she was very encouraging of just doing what I need to do to get better, and actually banned me from checking work email, lol. Now if I can just stop worrying about finances, I'd be good - and I'd also be able to become a millionaire by selling my method, since everyone I know worries about finances. <br /><br />@Jamie: I'm really just angling to have you make me that "Carl Rogers Said to Suck Me" sampler. ;) Thanks hun <3.Jessica Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06482829338366545360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post-80415957167571871292011-03-19T16:41:20.657-06:002011-03-19T16:41:20.657-06:00"Psychological maladjustment exists when the ..."Psychological maladjustment exists when the organism denies awareness of significant sensory and visceral experiences, which consequently are not symbolized and organized into the gestalt of the self structure. When this situation exists, there is a basic or potential psychological tension." <-- CARL ROGERS WANTS YOU TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE VALIDITY OF YOUR FEELINGS AND THAT YOU NEED TIME TO HEAL. CARL ROGERS WEEPS EVERY TIME YOU DENY THAT YOU, AS A HUMAN BEING, LEGITIMATELY NEED TO CUT YOURSELF SOME SLACK. (Carl Rogers apparently needs to be turned into a meme.)Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02231247668267311065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post-2119088816066886942011-03-18T13:54:35.349-06:002011-03-18T13:54:35.349-06:00There's a few things I could show you that may...There's a few things I could show you that may help dampen the guilt & change your thought patterns...I'd rather go more in depth than I can explain on a blog post, though.<br /><br />Stay vigilant, Huntress!J W 'Gigawood'https://www.blogger.com/profile/02775624464245654914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post-66805600197968343702011-03-18T08:50:10.975-06:002011-03-18T08:50:10.975-06:00Huntress, please try to remember that the evils ar...Huntress, please try to remember that the evils are not content to attack just your body - they will also try to break your spirit. Don't help them. No one wants to see you hurt yourself in any way - don't push yourself physically or emotionally. Just let be. We're all in this fight with you!Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13635752457442898556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4991776032924887707.post-55905677850518715862011-03-18T08:29:01.976-06:002011-03-18T08:29:01.976-06:00(I am doing this out of character, as what I am sh...(I am doing this out of character, as what I am sharing doesn't fit with my character. Hun, remember when I was pregnant and had hyper emersis and they told me I had to stop working. I felt so bad, and that was at a crappy job. I worked from home for a while and then had to stop altogether. I felt like such a failure. I mean women who are pregnant work everyday. I had all the same feelings. Even though I couldn't keep any food or water down, even though I KNEW it was really bad, I had incredible guilt every day. I was a drain on my family. I was a failure. My friends and coworkers and bosses were all talking behind my back. I was miserable. BUT, you know what, you all understood and stood by me. I had to know it was the right thing, just as you know this is the right thing. You get yourself better and you will be back to work better than ever. BUT I also had to learn that stressing about it was making my rest and recovery harder and slower. You need to accept that right now, THIS, getting better, is your job. Treat it as such, with the same fire and passion that you do your other jobs, and you will find it working better. Treating it as such will also give it purpose to you. You will get back to work, and everyone will still love you and be even happier with you. Your feelings are normal, and take confidence in everyone knows you are doing the right thing and only judging you positively for it. They would feel worse if you were there suffering. Everyone loves and respects you and your recovery is priority. I love you. Okay, back to character.)<br /><br />Huntress, the powers of darkness will not wait for your day job. You must fight them with your full strength and let that "job" take care of it self until the Evils are pushed back. You are protecting yourself, your loved ones and yes, even your coworker. Keep fighting the good fight, Huntress, and we are there for you.<br /><br />You are doing outstanding on your fights and training. Thank you to your allies who have helped this. I look forward to your future reports.<br /><br />*salute*Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07540996083157734083noreply@blogger.com